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Cathleen's avatar

Thank you for sharing! I feel this way quite often. I am always saying to my husband “I want to be a real boy”. Like in Pinocchio when he is tired of being made of wood? I miss my old self. 🤷‍♀️

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Emma Stubbs's avatar

Absolutely! Thank you xx

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Marian Vanek's avatar

My thoughts exactly! Thanks for stating it all so eloquently.

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Emma Stubbs's avatar

Thank you x

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neena maiya's avatar

You KNOW we'd love to hear about the man you saw trying to walk a rabbit on a lead.🙂 But you don't have to tell us.

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Emma Stubbs's avatar

😅

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Faith for All's avatar

My housemates got tired in the first month after my diagnosis. "Hey guys, I learned today that..." [Eyes glaze over, then they start furtively look for a way to change the subject.] One friend told me I'm obsessed with this stuff, and in a way they are not wrong. But the sad reality is that, barring a miracle or a cure, I will be living and dealing with PD the rest of my life -- it IS my new reality. Every day is a different challenge, and I will never be the same guy I was 5 or 10 or 20 years ago. So, yeah, PD will inevitably be part of my writing and speech. But sometimes it helps a lot to focus on other things -- like the blossoms on my apple tree or the new music from our worship team, The Elim Arrival. (Not-so-subtle plug) Guess I better get back to work now.

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Emma Stubbs's avatar

Absolutely xxx

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Sarah's avatar

Dear Emma, thanks again for vocalising so eloquently what it's like to have IT!

I had a similar experience in the beginning; watching, reading, studying every last word on the damned disease. Nowadays I just read your blog. I'm glad l found you, we're not alone! Sending love ❤️

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Emma Stubbs's avatar

Thank you xx

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Melissa  Livingston's avatar

Unapologetically avoids internet

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Emma Stubbs's avatar

hahah! best approach :)

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Piet Lammert's avatar

Brilliant as usual Emma!

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Emma Stubbs's avatar

Thank you xx

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Nancy in Oregon's avatar

You're always there when I need you.

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Emma Stubbs's avatar

😘😘

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Heather Cawte's avatar

Oh so true!! I wanted to know *everything* about M.E. I wanted to know about any celebrity with it, like that would make it easier to put up with. I wanted to know all the statistics. And then one day - I just wanted to read about something else, to think about other things, to look out instead of in.

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Emma Stubbs's avatar

Totally!

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Maggie Hollingsworth's avatar

Brilliant piece Emma. Spot on!

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Emma Stubbs's avatar

Thank you xx

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