AMEN! I'm 75 with both parkinson's and rheumatoid arthritis. My husband and I are two years out from moving to a retirement home that we have selected. This establishment is 50 miles from my only son and his wife. They objected at first but now they have a newborn and are more realistic about their energy and resources. I started last year getting rid of "stuff" and will continue to do so until we close the doors behind us. Our assets are in a trust. Our will needs re-doing but that's easy enough.
You see, I'm doing what my parents did. They decided, as I am deciding where I will be and what will happen. Any discussions remaining will be pleasant ones so that I can enjoy my grandchild and friends as I can.
It's taken a bit of work to get to the point where R and I can discuss my death calmly. I've drawn up a will, and power of attorney. He knows my wishes, and has detailed instructions for my funeral. I have perfect faith in his ability to handle things. I still don’t want it to happen, though xxxx
Thank you so much, your kind words means so much to me xxx I’m looking the euthanasia options as well, I think that will be a future post. I love the die well philosophy xxx
This is a hard conversation to have. We, most of us, cruise though life not thinking about this. Even as caregiver for my Aged M., I shy away from it.
I hope the UK can save and rebuild the health care system that you all have and don't let lazy, greedy governments destroy it. xx
It is hard to face isn't it? x I hope the health system can recover and be the ‘service’ it was intended to be, not a business!
AMEN! I'm 75 with both parkinson's and rheumatoid arthritis. My husband and I are two years out from moving to a retirement home that we have selected. This establishment is 50 miles from my only son and his wife. They objected at first but now they have a newborn and are more realistic about their energy and resources. I started last year getting rid of "stuff" and will continue to do so until we close the doors behind us. Our assets are in a trust. Our will needs re-doing but that's easy enough.
You see, I'm doing what my parents did. They decided, as I am deciding where I will be and what will happen. Any discussions remaining will be pleasant ones so that I can enjoy my grandchild and friends as I can.
Other than that, bring on the bubble wrap!
I love this! I think it’s the only control we have of an uncertain future. Thank you xx
It's taken a bit of work to get to the point where R and I can discuss my death calmly. I've drawn up a will, and power of attorney. He knows my wishes, and has detailed instructions for my funeral. I have perfect faith in his ability to handle things. I still don’t want it to happen, though xxxx
Oh of course not! But it is peace of mind knowing that the practicalities are sorted x
Boo! Happy Haunting w PD;)
hahah with my falling and crashing tiny things I’m not the quietest haunting hahah
I’m new to Substack whatever this is. Love ur column/writing!
Aww thank you! And welcome :)
Thank you so much, your kind words means so much to me xxx I’m looking the euthanasia options as well, I think that will be a future post. I love the die well philosophy xxx